Support
Support that meets you where you are
Some weeks you need a room full of people who already understand. Some days you need one hour with somebody who has walked it. Both are here, and you never have to choose before you are ready.
The free 12-step program
Twelve steps to renew your mind, find peace, and bring some light and structure back into your week. It is the same framework Jonny’s Angels groups use all over the world, and it is where nearly everybody begins.
Free when you leave your details, and free for as long as you need it. Nothing to prepare, and nothing to pay, ever.
Kathryn sends the invitations and meeting reminders herself. Unsubscribe any time.
What the twelve steps do
- Be witnessedSay what happened out loud, to people who will not flinch.
- Renew your mindMeet the thoughts grief installs, and learn what to do with them.
- Find some peaceSmall, repeatable practices for the heaviest hours.
- Turn mourning to lightFind the meaning, and the purpose hidden inside the pain.
Weekly community meetings
Every Thursday we gather on Google Meet. Angel parents, siblings, and parents and grandparents living with cut off culture, all welcomed by name and truly seen.
This is a place where you can talk about your ick and still be loved. Whether estrangement follows a loss or stands on its own, this room understands it as grief. Come once and you will understand why our members call it the anchor of their week.
What grandparent alienation does to the grandchild
- Billed monthly. Cancel any time, by one email, no questions asked.
- Members join from all over the world. Prices are in US dollars.
- If the cost is what stands in your way, write to Kathryn. Nobody is turned away.
Checkout is secure, through Stripe. You will have a receipt in your inbox straight away, and Kathryn will email you the Google Meet link before Thursday. Cancel any time from that receipt, or by one email.
Caring Listeners
Some nights you do not need a meeting. You need one person who will pick up.
Caring Listeners are beautiful people Kathryn knows personally, most of them bereaved parents themselves, who volunteer their time for free to listen when a parent is in crisis and needs to talk. Not a script, not a service, not a bill afterwards. A human being who will stay on the line.
The circle is small and growing, and every listener has walked through this valley. Call one of them directly, or ask Kathryn and she will match you with somebody herself, usually the same day.
Caring Listeners are volunteers, not therapists or crisis counsellors. If you are in danger right now, call or text 988 in the US, free and 24/7, or call 911.
Lisa Anderson
Caring Listener. Lisa volunteers her time to talk with parents who are in the thick of it, day or night.
If she cannot answer straight away she will call you back. Leaving a message is never a bother, it is the whole reason she signed up.
Prefer to write first? broker63@gmail.com
More listeners are joining. If you would like to be one, Kathryn would love to hear from you.
A daily practice
The Grief-to-Light Daily Journal
When you are carrying child loss, sibling loss or cut off culture, the weight of a single day can feel like more than you can lift. You should not have to work out where to start on your own.
This journal takes you gradually from deep mourning toward small, manageable moments of light.
- A map of the whole 12-step system, from mourning to light
- Morning grounding prompts written for the heaviest days
- Evening release and reflection pages, to quiet your mind before sleep
- Weekly trackers for the small shifts you would otherwise miss
- Permission slips for moments of joy, with no guilt attached
A printable PDF you download and begin tonight. Yours to keep and print as often as you need.
Get the journal — $25Secure checkout is being connected. Until then we will send your download link by email, usually the same day.
Private coaching
Sessions and packages to heal, find joy and meaning
True healing starts when somebody truly sees you. Every session is with Kathryn herself, on Google Meet, anywhere in the world.
60-minute coaching session
Deep listening from somebody who walks beside you from mourning to light. Together you find the meaning in what you have been through, and the purpose hidden inside the pain.
Three-session package
Three private 60-minute sessions. Room to go deeper, at a gentler pace, with the same person each time.
30-minute support call
A short, intentional practice for the moments that arrive without warning. Relief and clarity when you need them most.
Jonny’s Angels on YouTube
Miracle stories of connection with our angel children in Heaven, and honest talk about grief and about cut off culture with a surviving child or a grandchild.
Kathryn Anderson children’s books
The road Kathryn walked out of the dark places, and the stories that carry Heaven’s truths for children and adults alike.
Not sure where to begin?
Start with the free 12 steps on Tuesday. The rest of it will find you when you are ready for it.